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Sorry for you broken into peices. I have not felt that pain and i dont know how to resond in that situation.

I dont know how hard that is to forget her. But that is only solution i can see so far. may be some experts can give some real solutions.

 

hey hey hey if you wanna see some interested people then start thread saying lau na nepali keti le k dekhai, lau na ko ho tyo keti etc etc.

Move on with your life.

come on man, u r not suppose to giveup everything for a woman.
just destroy everything that u have from her, her picture and whatever u have.

i know its hard specially if u luv her unconditionally but......life must goes on.  i don't wnat to write more but when i can do it ,u can do it.

Check out this video.It has sth for you:

 

tell her that you wanted to get out of this relationship too. Don't tell directly but let her know. At least she know how it feels. Manage your life wisely,  bitter truth..........she is not the last girl in this earth. For you she is the world but rest of the world think she is only a girl(out of millions & more).

Peace.

Pain makes humans Proactive. The fact that you are willing to reach out to people is a good example of it. Seems you might have been pathetic with the feelings that is feeding you. As every person knows you too know that time will heal the misery. But the question is how long will this "time" take. It depends if you genuinely believe in patience, positive belief, presistency of your spirit. Emotions just don't understand the logic of life. Just a 2 cent suggested here is to speak with a person who is not judging you and is actively listening your feelings and thoughts. Be reflective and learn from this life event, it can help you grow as a good person and live a content lifestyle. Be flexiable and willing to listen. However, recognize that you are being vulnerable at the sametime screen the advices positively.You might want to speak to a good counselor.

broken_into_pieces  it looks like you  are looking for some girls here who may show you some sympathy.....

Get a Life!!

 

 

b i p,

even if she is gone, let her know. if you cannot forget her, remember her as much as you can. from the beginning , live the same life one more time, you will be amazed that you can open ur eyes this time. I just read your othe comment. Listen, when you need professional counscelling, go for it. This is not the end but you need help this time. If you don't  feel OK within next 24 hrs and those thought keep distrubing, please seek professional help. Do some meditation. Forgive her and forgive yourself for loving her.

Peace

If you are a man act like a man not a woman ok. stop crying. You are one of the luckiest friends in our society that already had one girl in life and open for another. I wish i had my life like yours.

arko kura, your girl deceived you because she found more better than you in many ways. She  hated you but  you stupid still worring about her and wasting your time  thinking about her.  Tit for tat, go ahead and hate her too  Work hard for you career, work for you promises that you had done to you parents.

If you are making up stories to find sajha girls, good luck for that too.

 

 

broken_into_pieces, it is very normal to go thru this after a break up. you will get thru and move on. time is the key dear. one thing u can do to make it easier on u, is spend more time with friends.

i'm sure u love her more than anything else in the whole freaking world. but at the end of the day...she left u. so who cares?? u have life. live it!

Broken into pieces.

You realize you are never going to fully forget about her. No matter how hard you try, she's going to come into your memory every now and then.

In the first few weeks, its ok to be depressed because you feel so numb and lifeless. Try playing some sports to see if it can distract you.

after you start getting your thoughts back together, write her a letter.

Pour your heart out. Write to her about the fun times you had about what you liked about her and blah blah blah. The purpose of this letter is to simulate an actual farewell conversation with her, since fone is a 2 way conversation and you never really get to say what you really mean. Letter is the best!
And in the end request her to burn your letter. It doesn't matter if she does burn it or not, for you, its a way of parting with your love and tying up loose ends.

Then buy yourself a bottle of gin, another of tonic, couple of lemons, salt the mothertrucker and drink yourself silly. Its ok to cry. Real men have real hearts, those who claim not to cry are the fake ones.

Lastly give yourself a pat on the back and congratulate yourself for being lucky enough to enjoy her company during that specific time frame, which she could have spent with anyone else.

There is only so much you can do, the rest is upto fate.

Take care man.

Hey broken into pieces. It reminds me of my story and ya I am still not completely over it. I know the pain and it really sucks. But have faith in god do not indulge yourself into immoral thing. Cry, scream, remain hungry, feel the pain to the deepest but never forget that there is a life ahead welcoming you. You just need to overcome this situation somehow. and most importantly do not try to compete with her life just live your own and live it fully. Shit happens man. and ya somehow people miss the habit not the person. So develop new habit that interests you.

please feel free to discuss more since i know this situation very well. Person overlooks the beauty of life in this kind of situation so we need to show them what life really is and of course we will show you if you come with a potential to see it

God bless you brother

I can feel your pain. I know it's very hard to forget as people says. I think you will be more mature because of this incident. You now know what it means to be hurt so that in future you will not involve in any kind of heart breaking game. Have you ever analyzed why she left you? Were you strong enough to be her man? Or was she just playing with your emotions? Whatever may be the reason, now it's time to analyze and interpret. If we look at ourselves, we are nothing but a system of complex chemical reactions. You and your girl started as reactants and the overall product was just pain and sorrow.When one system malfunctions, it affects the whole system. Is there anyway to fix this broken piece of system? Look at yourself. Observe yourself. You have all the manual to fix this broken system. Your girl was more acidic to react with you. In the reaction mixture, you forgot to put the buffer. So take this breakup as a lesson, and try to react with less acidic girls in coming future. You can fix this. It's all about chemical reaction. Life is very short my dear friend, people come and go. But who loves you will never leave you. She does not deserve your love. May be she have found a high profile man. That's her big mistake. You focus with your career. Try to do something big and good. Learn knew things and enjoy being human. Make a phone call to your mom and talk to her right now.

hey,

have a relationship with a new girl. you would forget everything. after all a man brain and heart lies inside his di--ck. i saw this somewhere in sajha and i have started to believe it .

find a girl and wont take you long to be the most perfect person back again in your life.

enjoy