Hey guys, my bhinaju is applying for a visa to attend my graduation. I know its kind of risky but we are just taking a shot. I would be grateful if you can give me some tips and do or don't? He has a Master's Degree and currently working as a lecturer on a campus. He has pretty impressive CV filled with experiences with big NGOs/INGOs but i have told him not to focus on his academia or experiences. Any inputs will be highly appreciated!!

Most prove social ties to be  back to Nepal. One lecturer ( but they say professor to themselves ) got an invitation to participate in IEEEE conference in TX, he went to Embassy with the invitation letter, Result was obvious, denial by the way he was single.

Thanks bro. My Bhinaju has 2 kids. Yeah thats what I was telling him to prove the social and economic ties to convince the counselor. What could be some letters that would make the counselor less skeptical?

I have no personal experience in this matter. However, here are my two cents

Tell your bhinaju not to focus at all on his research work with UNDP and stuff. The counselor is probably going to ask him what he does for a living. So he just needs to tell the counselor what his profession is. It will be helpful if he is able to show that it is a permanent job with good benefits and stuff. Tell him not to focus on his educational qualifications much. Besides that I would suggest him to include some kind of a document that shows that he has two kids. May be a nata pramanikaran from the wada or something (just in case the counselor looks at it while flipping through the file). He should also include financial documents showing that he has very strong financial ties to Nepal.

Are your parents too attending your graduation? If not, it will be very easy for him to tell the counselor that you really wanted at least one member of the family to be here for your graduation, that's why he is applying for the visa.

Just out of curiosity, why is he applying for the visa?

Disclaimer: I have no personal experience in this matter. So take my advice with a grain of salt.

why not mom, dad , sister , girlfriend for graduation? why vinaju? is he trying to file asylum???

 

I agree with pshrestha78, why bhinaju? if I were visa officer I will ask same question....Why would your show CV for visa application? that is the deadly mistake. Just give good reason why your bhinaju is going and not parents or close relatives. I am not sure...but may be you can show that you bhinaju has been teaching you since childhood and you want to share this moment of success with your person who have always been your teacher and mentor..this may sound stupid though. If your bhinaju have true intention to return back to Nepal, let him be confident and face the interview.

Okay saathi haru. asylum,ani illegal bhayera basna khojeko hoina. yaha visit garna ko lagi (nepal maa US gako lai ali cool bhanchan ni lol) ho. he is just giving a shot if he gets he will be able to hang out with me for a while and see how US is like and if he gets rejected,he will continue his profession back home. ma bhinaju sanga ekdum close chu so i told him to check his luck and i think it would be nice for me too to see him here. like everybody said, "why bhinaju?' counsellor le sure sodcha yo question. esko lagi hamro answer bhaneko " parents ko health complications haru cha ra travel garna ekdum garo huncha n i want sb from my family to be here while i m wearing my gown and cap. didi ko baccha haru sano bhayeko she cudnt travel by herself. thats why binaju" parents ko kura chahi yetikai banayeko ho hai ali biswasilo dekhauna. what do ya guys say? is that plausible?

 

Bhinaju + USA = Cool Bhinaju...

Why do you need Vinaju for your graduation? It is very odd "Dude". When I graduated nobody was with me.

SydBro: Sorry that was not meant to hurt your feelings bro... Sincere apologies.. but I just found that really funny the way you put it...

I was not hurt or offended, its all good.

SydBro: You know this already but it is not going to an easy case to make for your wannabe cool  bhinaju... I don't mean to discourage but I think that's the reality.

syd_acid, after knowing that your bhinaju will be the only one from your family applying for the visa, I think he has a decent chance of getting the visa if he keeps things simple. By that I mean that, if he doesn't focus too much on his stellar academic and professional work and just simply tells the counselor that since you really want to share your happiness with at least one person from your family and he is the only one who can attend it, he wants to get the visa to be able to share your happiness during the graduation. Good Luck! As far as I am concerned, I think he definitely has a decent chance of getting the visa.

sabkosathi bro, thanks for the input. i am keeping my fingers crossed and lets see how it goes. One random question: What do you guys think opting to give the interview in English might play any roles in the possibility of getting a visa? I told him to choose Nepali.

I suggest going completely Nepali and acting in such a way that he would not survive a day in the US without being supported... Someone already pointed out about the academic and professional achievements - let them stay locked in the closet. And yes, resume would be the visa killer. It will seem like he has already got his resume ready for job applications...

Yeah thats what i thought. Thanks for your suggestion newlynew bro. He wont present anything which will give the consul a reason to suspect. Thanks for all the suggestions and inputs.It means a lot.

What a pity. No one wants to live here. This is our Country. Respect her. And how dare you put such a question here. Sajha should ban this whoever this person is.

Post your Bhinaju's name and address and I will help him flee his own motherland.

Good Luck.

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Maile dherai kay bhane ra. Desh nachhoda bhanya nai ta ho.

this is what is ruining our society....

what a thinking... if people visit US, then they are cool and great reh.... This is called Lato desh mah gado taaaneri....

just wondering how such people get chance to do research in UNDP....