I had a intimate relationship with a girl for two YEARS(friend with benefit kinda) when i studied in thailand .Now after five yearrs i found out that shes gonna be my sista in law, .I am really confused over here COZ we shared same bed for two yrs and our ways got seprated and how could she marry mah bro knowingly i am his bro. Is she really in love with him? if yes how should i accept her as my sista in law or should i talk to my bro or with her abt my sitation. My bro and i have really good relationship but i found out he is in deep lop with her.Well my bro called me today from hes gonna marry her next summer.Good lord

hmm ... do you still have feelings for her?

I dont , i am over with her but then what about when we see each other .Dont you think its gonna be wierd situation plus its very sensitive too. Marraige is a huge thing. Dont u think i should tell my bro abt it.

Damn! it's quite messed up. Tell your brother that she is not the right person for him and try to persuade him against her.

If he still doesn't get it, tell him that you fu(ked her.

literatefool,

Which school did you go in Thailand? AIT ??

Well, the situation is kinda complicated. I am sure it's gonna be very difficult and even more complicated if you don't tell your brother now and he comes to know by some other means later on. I guess it's better you tell all the story to your brother....

well i would think the girl would have already told him about that...especially if she already knows u're his brother. she must have been considering the same thing you are..

she's a bi*ch. tell your brother about her.

I think she hasnt told my brother abt our relationship other wise my bro is very frank with me. I now think i should tell everything . Well on other hand my bro is blindly in love with her .Hes not that playa kinda thing. If i am not mistaken shes the first girlfriend he has. Inspite of all this I think i should convience him. Thanx for suggestion guys i am relieved now

i say ... talk to the girl if you can and tell her to tell him...

or you tell him..coz it would be easier that way for you and not feel weird everytime you see her and vice versa....but in this case..anything can happen. Depends on if he can understand the situation or not...

it's not like this kind of thing never happen ... other people deal with it.. you can figure something out too.

Nepali version of HOUSE OF CARTERS

if i were you i take an axe and hack her into pieces and cook the meat and eat it.

Don't talk to the girl. She's a bicth. If she wanted she would have told your brother about it by now. I think you should tell your brother personally about your relationship with her. If he is blindly in love with her, he will accept her anyhow. At least he won't be mat at you later in life.

Dude! life is long, You don't wanna make a HINDI MOVIE outta it.

awesome pupiffy u r the man

Kyun tension leta hai too? Tere paas bahut badhiya screenplay lekhne ka chanus mil-raha hai. Ek kaam kar, tu apna life-story likh-kar kissi bollywood ke producer ko bech-de. Bahut maalamaal ho-jayega.

Haaa, ab, tera life-story screenplay ka naam kya rakhneka? Haa....khopdi mein idea aaya...

Main, Mere Bhai aur Woh

Bahoot maalamaal hojawogey, bidhoo. Kai ko tension???

Come'on guys,be serious! He really need our help.
but riten , :)) that was funny haaaaaaaa
Ahemmm literatefool,if i were you,i would rather talk to the lady first ,n try to find out whether she really luvs my brother or not. If she do,and my bro luvs her too, i wud rather keep it as a secret for my whole life .

Riten,
if you cannot give ppl solution, at least don't make fun of his/her situation.

Tell your brother the truth. How do you think your brother would feel that his wife alreday had realationship with you when he finds out letter on.
If you truly care about your brother then Tell him every thing. If he still wants to marry her then that is between him and her. Otherwise you may ruin your brother's marriutal life and he may never forgive you.

It is not to late, He may be angry with you for a while, but he still is your brother. And your brother still have a chance to choose another wife if he does not wish to marry that girl.

Be honest and tell your brother, story Khattam.

is she a Thai, or a Nepali? Either way, call Jerry Springer and have him arrange a show among you, your brother and the girl. It would be most interesting..

And again It is Not your fault that you meet the girl first, and already did family planning. So your brother cannot blame you for that. But if you hide the truth just because your brother is in love and happy for now, then you are making a BIG mistake.

Sometime medcine is bitter, but one has to take it, it is for their own good.

It is a fake story. This guy is just trying to get peoples' comments.