I have problems with relationships.I should say that I am a quiet person and it takes me longer to open up to people.Whenever I meet other nepali people,I just say hi and smile and don't talk a lot.This way people think that I am cold and arrogant,and before getting to know real me they start ignoring me.I am a friendly and sweet person,but I just don't know how to break the ice.If you guys have any technique on how to approach people warmly then please do post some suggestions.

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His is also lonely.............

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Batash

Self-trust is the first secret of success.Believe in urself that u can persuade the pplz around u and make urself comfortable to ur existing environment.If any person Appeals to u then just make a approach to the person with a smile and start a converstion with a greeting like "hi","hello" or if that person is a gal then just complimet with a word "u have a sweet smile" or "u look gr8 in this black dress" .Remember!!!!!! while complimenting, be specific,it helps to draw lil more attention of that person ....OR...u can begin ur converstion with some jokes.While u will be commmunicating , other person's body-attitude and responce to ur words will reflect that how much u are comfying him/her and how entertaining ur company is.

Try to envolve other person equally to ur converstion .As Silence is sometimes the best answer,listen to the other person when she/he is talking.Trying too hard may irritate person so just be urself while u communicate.Let the conversation flow smooth and normal.

Well, Self-trust is the essence of heroism.and with the span of time u will learn how to be intriguing and enthusiastic.As pplz say that "Sense comes with age".

wish u all the best!!!!!!

-chettrini
wah....wah...wah... kya khub.
i need bit more of these.........
will u give me some more wayout of it
plz
:-)

Batash dude

I've a personality mostly similar to yours. Do you know what, I have learnt a lot in last few years. I really dont care if other people think whatever type of person I'm. It's their (not mine) problem to misunderstand me. I just give them a f**k and tell them to get the heck away from me and scare the hell out of them with threats.

When people correctly understand me I've always been 10X nicer to them.

"chettrini ..wah....wah...wah... kya khub. i need bit more of these......... will u give me some more wayout of it .plz :-) "


PR ric,
Most of the time ppl face this short of situation due to insecurities .so to cure such problem, one need to eradicate inferior complex .

Sometime, we focuse our own drawback so hyperly that it makes us self-concious. the main solution i see in such problem is that one should be always optimestic about ownself. Who is perfect here,anyway.NOne is perfect...none...not even a GOD is perfect and we are human. Never emphasize on ur negative side but always be positive. It's a life, man ...A LIFE AROUND MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF PPLZ ...gathering of huge numbers of pplz...huge numbers of pplz means obviously enormous option to make a move for ur own type of person.Never think priorly that ur act may disguise pplz , if u feel like talking then just go for it.Atleast u can try...who knows that person whom u wanna interact is expecting u to make a first move.Who knows u can blow anyone like a strom. If u have a quality of impressing pplz then let it brust out. Let the grip go...let pplz be shocked and let them adore u ...u,only u can make it happen...if not u then none can do it...so just let it happen.

if u are scared of commiting mistakes then u are never gonna learn new thing. mistake is wht pplz later named as their experience so let thing happens and let it reckon it as ur experience and give urself a chance of learning about how to approach pplz.More u will make approach to pplz more socalized u will be and more confidence u can build up ownself.

Hey i found same thread is posted twice...in other one ruina has tiped with some crucial points...u can view hers as well.

Hopefully,my these words will help u to push up and u'll ignore ur demerits focusing merits.

LUVCK IS ON UR WAY AND MOVE IS WHT U NEED TO MAKE NOW!!!!!!!!!

LUCK IS IN UR WAY***

Damnnnnnnnnnnnn..............
herana chhetrini, theres no one around me at this cafe...............
lucky they.....isn't it
otherwise...............ohhhhh gos
;)