This is heartening, man! 

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-हरिवंश आचार्य

हुन त यो मेरो व्यक्तिगत जीवनको कुरा हो । सबैले चिन्ने मान्छे भएको कारण चासो हुनु स्वभाविक नै हो । श्रीमती मिरा नभएपछि एक वर्षभन्दा बढी समय मैले एक्लै जीवन बिताएँ । मैले के बिचार गरें भने जीवन सहज र संयमित भयो भने ७५, ८० वर्षसम्म बाँच्न सकिन्छ । हिसाब गर्दाखेरी म अझै २०, २५ वर्ष बाँच्छु जस्तो लाग्छ । यत्रो जिन्दगीमा एक्लो भएर बस्नु कत्तिको ठीक हो, मैले आफूलाई कत्तिको न्याय गर्छु त भन्ने हिसाब पनि मैले गरें । श्रीमती जीवित हुँदा उनलाई गर्नुपर्ने जुन कर्तव्य थियो, मैले पूरा गरें ।

उनले छोडेर गैसकेपछि अब उनी आत्मामा मात्र बस्ने मान्छे भइन । अब त उनी मेरो लागि देवी, भगवती भइन् । भगवानलाई पाउँछु भनेर सधैं आश गरेर बस्ने कुरा पनि भएन । त्यसकारण मैले आफ्नो जिन्दगीको लागि केही सोच्नुपर्छ भन्ने ठानें । र सोच्न पनि जरुरी थियो । किनभने घरमा पनि धेरै परिवार भयो भने सजिलो हुन्छ होला । घरमा जम्मा दुईजना परिवार । एउटा छोरा अमेरिकामा छ । अर्कोले आफ्नै व्यवसाय शुरु गरेको छ । बेलुका घर फर्किंदा समय लाग्छ, अबेर हुन्छ । घरमा पुग्दा एक्लै । साथीको घरमा कति जानु । घरमा एक्लै हुँदा अत्यास लाग्न थाल्यो ।

धेरै मान्छेले श्रीमती विवाह गरेपछि पुनर्विवाह गरेका छन् । ठूला ठूला मान्छेले पनि गरेका छन् । श्रीमती हुँदाहुँदै मैले विवाह गरेको भए यो अपराध हुन्थ्यो । मिरा नभैसकेपछि मैले मेरो जिन्दगीको लागि सोच्नुपर्ने जरुरी थियो । छोराहरुको भाव पनि यस्तै थियो । साथीहरुको सल्लाह पनि यस्तै भयो । त्यसकारण मैले यो निर्णय गरेको हो । मदन दाइले धेरै सम्झाउनुभयो । तिमी यसरी बस्दा हाम्रो काममा बाधा हुन्छ भन्नुभयो । भाउजु, दिदीहरु, मेरो छोराहरु सबैले यस्तै कुरा गरे । अनि मेरो पनि व्यक्तिगत निर्णयले यसो गरें ।

अब घरमा मैले बोल्ने साथी पाएको छु । आफ्नो माया गर्ने मान्छे, जीवनसाथी भन्ने कुरा प्रकृतिले दिएको कुरा हो । यसो हुँदा त मेरो जीवन, पारिवारिक अवस्था र काममा पक्कै पनि फरक हुन्छ ।

मैले एउटै कुरा के भन्छु भने, मैले गलत काम गरेको छैन । म पनि मानव हो । मैरो पनि नीजि जीवन हुन्छ । यसबाट मेरोबारेमा समाजमा नराम्रो सोच्नुपर्ने केही छैन जस्तो लाग्छ मलाई । संसारमा कति मानिसका श्रीमान बितेका छन्, श्रीमती बितेका छन्, फेरि पनि पुनर्विवाह गरेका छन् । मेरो पनि यस्तै उदाहरण हो । यसलाई मैले सहज ढंगले नै लिएको छु । आशा छ समाजले पनि सहज ढंगले नै लिनेछ । श्रीमती हुँदाहुँदै कसैसँग त्यस्तो सम्बन्ध राखेर हिंड्ने गरेको भए दर्शक र मेरा शुभेच्छुकहरुको धारणामा चोट पर्न सक्थ्यो । अहिले दर्शकहरुकै सल्लाहले पनि यसो गरेको हुँ । धेरैजनाले मलाई एक्लै बस्न हुन्न भन्नुभएको थियो । त्यसकारण मैले जे गरें, ठीक गरें जस्तो लाग्छ । कतिपय कुरा कसैलाई मन पर्छ, कसैलाई पर्दैन । यो कुरा दर्शकहरुकै हातमा छोडिदिनुपर्छ ।

 Ma Hari Bansha Ji ko Kura ma 100% sahamat chu. He made a very good decision to get married and setting up an example to the Society. Thulo Manche ko Thulo Sochai huncha, Thanks Hari Bansha Ji, for the courage and marrying a widow.

Crap people like Champ needs to respect this kind of decision which sets an example in the society.
Sabai kura lai negative ma lina, aarule ramro kaam gareko dehi nasahane bayera nai Nepal ko yo Gati cha.
Thik cha naramro kaam ko birod garnu parcha, tara kasaila ramro kaam garecha bene teslai pani ta prottshan garnu parcha.

I see champ as sick and drepress, which makes people around him the same.
 

यो बिचको समय नेपाली कला, समाजसेवा एबम आफ्ना कामहरु पूर्ववत गर्न असमर्थ हरिबंश दाइ यो बिबाहले पहिलेकै अवस्थामा सकृय हुनुहुनेछ भन्ने अपेक्षा गरेका छौ ।
त्यसो त हरिबंश दाइले जुनसुकै उमेर,रुप,ओहदाका ब्यक्ति सङ्ग बिहे गर्न सक्नुहुन्थ्यो । उहाले बिगत एक दशक पहिले बिधवा हुनुभएकी रमिला पाठक सङ्ग बिहे गरेर समाजमा सकरात्मक सन्देश पनि दिनुभएको छ ।

I hate this kind of writings in our culture. Even if the society is happy that he will be back to social work after getting married does not it kind of insult the woman because society approves the wedding because  Hari Bansa can get back to social work now. Is there not any other thing special about the marraige or Hari Bansa's love for her???

Also, why fking point out he could have married anyone but married a widow as if he was doing a favor to the widow. Should this really be a favor? I hope Haribansa married the widow because he liked/loved the person and not because he wanted to make a social statement.

I agree with sap dude.

I agree to what Sap dude has said. Even I thought what the crap was that "Rabindra Mishra" meant by saying "त्यसो त हरिबंश दाइले जुनसुकै उमेर,रुप,ओहदाका ब्यक्ति सङ्ग बिहे गर्न सक्नुहुन्थ्यो । उहाले बिगत एक दशक पहिले बिधवा हुनुभएकी रमिला पाठक सङ्ग बिहे गरेर समाजमा सकरात्मक सन्देश पनि दिनुभएको छ ।"

Does he mean that Hari Bansha is doing some kind of favor to this woman by marrying her? Did he marry her because he loved her or because he wants to set an example in the society? Even I don't buy this Rabindra's claim that Hari Bansha is capable of marrying a woman of any standard as he said. Man, what a sick chauvinistic mentality he's got !! If a so-called "modern and forward-thinking" journalist/activist of our country thinks like this, then i don't know what to expect from a common man.

Anyway,

Congratulations To Hari Bansha Acharya and hope that he'll be able to lead a normal life very soon. After all, life is all about putting the past aside and moving on.

Cheesy journalism reflecfting typical Nepali mindset.... 

हाम्रो समाज र रिति मा भाषा को एक रत्ति पनि ज्ञान नभएर एस्तो भाको हो | बोल्दा बोल्दै धोति फुस्केको थाहा हुँदैन हामीलाई |

केहि दिन अघि पार्टी मा साथि को बुडी ले भनिन....मेरो श्रीमान मान्छे नराम्रो देखिए पनि मान्छे सारै असल हुनुहुन्छ....

I know she meant well for her husband. She was trying to tell others that her husband was a good person but she was also making a statement that he was butt ugly and she puts up with that. There are several examples like this.

Stop writing or saying things like " manche kalo bhayepani man safaa cha" that is not a positive sentence...

कसो "जुनसुकै लिंग, उमेर,रुप,ओहदाका ब्यक्ति" भनेनछ
उडाउन पायो भने अति नै उदाउछन

I think it was a good decision by Hari Bansha, but the cheap journalists again tried to make it a sensational news by trying to show as if Hari Bansha was merely doing a favor to the woman. That kind of statements denigrating women should not have been acceptable, and Hari Bansha's statement have cleared that somewhat.

@ curfew thanks for comment but why I wrote this things ? Behind that I have so many proofs ...... Have you seen Meera Bhauju with him any time anywhere in any function ?????? The answer will be always NO A BIG NO ok because I know personally. What happen and what's going with there past life. Hopefully you know the meaning of " RAKHEL" exactly he treat her beloved wife before. He will never take her with him in any function or anywhere. If I am wrong then some one who knows very closely can comment it. I will love to argue and to
Listen. Media ko Agadi ma Aba arko bihay gardina bhannay samajh Lai daykhauna nataki kabita rachnay Ani ahilay ayera ek bidhuwa aimai Lai bihay garay ra Kay Kay na gari bhanayra samaj Lai daykhauna khojnay thuikaAAAAAAAA

 Champ, you come across like a proper tool, man (noticed it in some other thread too). No hard feelings. Just saying the way I see it. Your idiotic remark was unnecessary. 

why is this a news ? if a widow got married, i would say that something good has happened.

 This is news because Haribasha, one of the most renowned Nepalese got married. Him getting married to a widow isn't the reason why this is news. 

Welcome to Biology 101: In today's class we dissect comment posted by a MORON


so let's begin: ( I am going to be posting CHAMP'S comment in BOLD)

Have you seen Meera Bhauju with him any time anywhere in any function?????? : that's your proof? seriously dude, an opinion is not a proof.

Proof: Evidence or argument establishing or helping to establish a fact or the truth of a statement. Not something that can be established based on something you know. it is based on something concrete and testable.

Whatever happend to Hari Bamsha's "past" life (maybe he was charlie chaplin, though i do not believe in reincarnation) are you referring to his life during his first marraige? if so it's NONE OF YOUR FKING BUSINESS.

Treated wife as rakhel: again no substantial proof given, just an opinion of a loose cannon.

He will never take her with him in any function or anywhere. If I am wrong then some one who knows very closely can comment it. I will love to argue and to:
Yet again no solid proof, I have tried searching for anything substantial with a magnifying glass.


Listen. Media ko Agadi ma Aba arko bihay gardina bhannay samajh Lai daykhauna nataki kabita rachnay Ani ahilay ayera ek bidhuwa aimai Lai bihay garay ra Kay Kay na gari bhanayra samaj Lai daykhauna khojnay thuikaAAAAAAAA
Can you cite the source please. I would love to see where you are getting this from are you perhaps stalking Hari Bamsha? Again him getting married/not married is NONE OF YOUR FKING BUSINESS.  seems like you have a grudge against the guy. are you 15 gatey ko khasi?

 

Afno bhaat khau, aafno kaam gara

sapu dude, you are right. But I am sure who ever wrote that news have no idea what you or we are talking about here.

हरि बंसले ठीक गरे! नत्र मरेको बुडीको बेदनाले कसरी कमेडी गर्ने? He does comedy for living, hoina ra? 

Salute to a model celebrity, Mr. Hari Bansha Acharya!
And of course, a hearty congratulation from me!!